What Do You Do When Social Media Starts to Drain You?
I’m an ultra-introvert. Not the quiet, shy kind—more like the deeply internal kind. The kind who thrives in depth, not noise. Who can write for hours, but cringes at forced visibility.
So when content creation started feeling like a performance instead of an expression, I didn’t just feel tired. I felt disconnected. From myself. From my audience. Even from the message I once loved.
There was a point where I couldn’t even bring myself to open the app.
Not because I didn’t care. Not because I didn’t want to show up. But because everything about it—the noise, the pressure, the performance—felt heavier than it should have.
I launched my social media account in October 2024, full of curiosity and commitment. I dove into the digital marketing space headfirst. Every podcast, every module, every freebie—I consumed it all. I enrolled in course after course, each one offering fresh insight and angles. I even resold a few, picking up valuable lessons and perspectives along the way.
But the deeper I went, the more I noticed something.
No matter how tactical the training was—hooks, content plans, funnels—it all circled back to the same foundation: mindset.
And that’s where I stalled.
Not because I didn’t believe in the power of mindset, but because I was too tired to keep up with it. I couldn’t push through the mindset work that was meant to hold everything else up. Not because I didn’t care. But because I was already running on empty.
The deeper truth?
I had burned out on content before I’d even found my rhythm.
I wasn’t creating from clarity—I was reacting from pressure. I followed routines that didn’t feel like mine. I wrote captions that sounded more like someone I admired than someone I was. I posted because the algorithm told me to—not because I had something I wanted to say.
And eventually, even looking at my own content started to drain me.
That’s when I realized: no strategy, no template, no content calendar could reach me in that state. When you’re burnt out, even the smartest tip feels irrelevant. Even the logo of the app can trigger resistance.
In that moment, I didn’t need more advice. I needed a break.
So I paused.
No batching. No optimizing. No “just post something.” I gave myself permission to stop—and reflect.
Here’s what helped:
- I paused every action-based expectation I had around showing up
- I gave myself space to write, but only for myself—not to be seen
- I returned to gratitude—not as a productivity hack, but as a way to feel human again
Because clarity doesn’t come from pushing harder—it comes from hearing yourself again.
And if you’re feeling that weight too—like your content no longer reflects you, like your energy is leaking instead of leading—let this be your permission to pause.
You’re not failing. You’re just tired.
You don’t need to throw everything away.
You just need to come back to yourself—before you create anything else.
When you’re ready, your next message will sound different.
Not louder. But clearer.
And that’s when it starts to work.
